Canceling "Hey"

Email breakup turns into a comment-section food fight over politics, principles, and petty design digs

TLDR: A longtime customer quit Hey after its famous founder posted inflammatory remarks about migrants, turning a simple subscription cancellation into a values fight. In the comments, people argued over principle vs. "cancel culture" — while one person, naturally, complained about the website layout.

A paying user dramatically dumped Hey, the $99-a-year email service made by software celebrity David Heinemeier Hansson, after discovering a blog post from him comparing "gypsies" to wolves and arguing they should be deported. The writer tried to keep the tone calm — basically, "I don’t hate the guy, but I’m not funding this" — yet the real fireworks came from the crowd, who instantly turned the whole thing into a mini culture-war circus.

One camp zeroed in on what they saw as a contradiction: if you say you don’t believe in public shaming, is posting "Cancelling Hey" not exactly that? One commenter practically slammed the brakes on the title alone, saying it sounded suspiciously like "cancel culture" before realizing it was about canceling a subscription. Another rolled in with pure eye-roll energy, mocking the idea of needing an email company run by people you agree with on everything. Translation: must your inbox pass a politics test now?

And because no internet argument is complete without chaos goblins, someone ignored the moral showdown entirely to complain that the site’s left sidebar doesn’t fit on a laptop screen. Another helpfully explained who DHH even is for non-insiders: the creator of Ruby on Rails, a popular web-building tool. So yes, beneath the serious dispute was the usual comment-section magic: outrage, nitpicking, identity checks, and one deeply internet truth — no matter how explosive the topic, someone will always critique the UI.

Key Points

  • The author says he is canceling his Hey subscription after four years of use at $99 per year.
  • The article states that Hey was created by DHH and that he published a post titled "Wolves, sheep, and gypsies" on Hey’s publishing platform.
  • The author quotes DHH’s post, including a passage comparing responses to wolves and migrants.
  • The article says the author generally opposes shouting or shaming people over disagreements and frames this using conflict theory versus mistake theory.
  • The author cites Paul Graham on false statements, then argues that false statements can also be harmful and begins assessing DHH’s claims on that basis.

Hottest takes

"canceling as part of the 'cancel culture'" — throwfaraway135
"find an email platform run by people you always agree with" — eduction
"Your left nav doesn’t have a scrollbar" — fhdkweig
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